How do I know I have found the right person, a job…

How do I know I have found the right person, a job…

God is never late – everything in life happens for a reason!

This woman’s story will convince you of that!

So many times I have heard that cliché about meeting the right person, at the right time. Everything happens when it is judged and you just need to believe in good things and they will happen and some inner feeling will tell me which decision is right. This “recipe” for happiness has only irritated me for years and for me, those sentences didn’t make any sense.

How do I know that I have found the right person, the job I have dreamed of all my life, and so on?

I lived on average, I met all kinds of people, made friends, had fun and broke up, got a job and quit, made mistakes, and kept going. However, I never had the feeling that I was completely doing something good, something that makes me happy.

All this lasted exactly until the moment when the first doubts were born. The first notes of anguish in my heart and soul. Exactly until the moment when I realized that I was just running in a circle all the time. I felt neither pleasure nor joy. One day a thought came to me and I decided to turn my life into something good, into something very good. There was only one question: “How?”

I have been taught since childhood that the right things will surely come. The people I looked up to were convinced that I should never be satisfied with small things.

This means that we should let into life only those people who are similar to us, who extract only the best from us, who motivate us. To choose only those jobs that fill your heart. Let’s move forward and not look back.

How do I know I have found the right person, a job…

They constantly reminded me that God has a plan, and my job is to trust him completely and that I will find peace and harmony only when I give up selfish desires.

At first, I misunderstood this advice. I thought that just about every person who enters my life is the right one and that he is there for a reason. However, this is not the case. God sends us various people and situations. Some are correct, and some are there to teach us something. It is up to us to make the right choices.

I thought that if I tried to change the situation, my friends would get better, but that is far from the truth.

When the right person is next to you, be it a friend or a partner, you will feel it. When you feel incredible calmness in your chest, you feel a higher power guide you. At the same time, you are born with the inner self-confidence that you are on the right path and with the right person. The only situations that provoke such feelings in you are the ones you need to spend time on and give yourself to.

The great truth is: if something is wrong, not only will you feel it, but you will surely know it. There will be wonderful discoveries and bitter disappointments on your way. And your task is to feel what is right and what is not? And most importantly: repeat like a mantra that sooner or later you will come to what is truly yours.

When you let God into your heart, the true beauty of everything is revealed, no matter what you touch. Now this old cliché – “If something is wrong, you will feel it” – becomes much clearer.

We all wonder for years in search of the “right”, often agreeing to less than we deserve, instead of making the right decisions from the start. Although, maybe I would never have known how to appreciate everything well if I hadn’t made wrong choices over the years. Maybe it was all part of my life journey and some kind of lesson that taught me gratitude.

God has a perfect plan for each of us and always leads us to the goal, and how much we wander to that goal depends solely on ourselves. Along the way, we will encounter obstacles and opportunities. How long it will take us to reach the top depends on our choices and faith in a better tomorrow.

How do I know I have found the right person, a job…


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